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We learned to keep our feelings down as children and kept them buried as adults.As a result of this conditioning, we confused love with pity, tending to love those we could rescue. As ACA becomes a safe place for you, you will find the freedom to express all the hurts and fears you have kept inside and to free yourself from the shame and blame that are carryovers from the past.
You will recover the child within you, learning to accept and love yourself.I know how much it hurts to see them in a condition of despair and seemingly hopeless.I know what it feels like to think you are sinking in the despair and hopelessness right along with them.When we release our parents from responsibility for our actions today, we become free to make healthier decisions as actors, not reactors. We awaken to a sense of wholeness we never knew was possible.
By attending these meetings on a regular basis, you will come to see parental alcoholism for what it is: a disease that infected you as a child and continues to affect you as an adult.
The healing begins when we risk moving out of isolation. By gradually releasing the burden of unexpressed grief, we slowly move out of the past.